Friday, February 24, 2012

some tips on how to survive a long distance relationship.

  • COMMUNICATE
    • remember all the important dates. celebrating is almost impossible. but with the available technology it is quite easy. send her flowers availed from the internet. have dinner while she grabs that lunch or breakfast [goes with the time difference]. anything na makakapagspend kayo ng time nyo magkasama.
    • resolve issues, learn to give. lower your pride. fuck yer pride. if you want this to work, there is no need to keep your head up high. you are a team competing on the same side. not opponents trying to be better than the other.
    • whatever you are feeling, anxiety, fear or whatever is bothering you, sabihin mo agad. wala kayong time mag mind games. kung nung magkasama kayo nagpapahula ka pa ng nararamdaman mo dahil feeling mo psychic sya, sorry dahil ngayun hindi na nya mababasa ang palad mo kung ano ang nararamdaman mo.
    • sometimes lending an ear is all that matters. makinig ka lang please naman.[walang pinaghuhugutan]
    • be honest at all times. in turn kung naging honest na sya sayo try to be understanding
  • dispel negativity
    • if he/she is spending time with his/her friends let him/her be. it is a way of coping. sino pa ba lalapitan nya kundi mga friends nya db? kung pagseselosan mo mga friends nyang kinukuhanan nya ng lakas dahil magkalayu kayo, masyado mo syang kinukulong sa mundong ikaw lang ang may gusto. in short sinasakal mo sya. youre selfish meeen.
    • Wag mo isipin ang tagal ng paghihiwalay nyo, isipin mo ang muling pagsasama nyo. maexcite ka. magsaya ka. dahil sa bawat oras na lumilipas, bawat araw na dumadaan is a step closer to both of you guys being together again
  • para sa mga lalake, mhirap maging faithful. pero tandaan nyo, ang magsasalba sa relationship nyo ay ang mga nakabookmark na pornsites jan sa computer nyo.


mahirap, sobrang hirap ang long distance relationship. i dont even think its possible. 


pero kung mahal mo, nothing is impossible.

dagdagan ko once i remember them. 
you know you love the person when with a heavy heart you still manage to say you love her ng buong pagsisinta at pagiirog.