turning down a girl friend to be a girlfriend

well i have this friend. she's in love with our other friend. actually close friends kame.


this guy, who she's in love with, let's just say physically and being a friend he is flawless. oo pre mejo nakakabading. but lets admit it, nobody is perfect. at kahit na ganun, si babae ay patuloy pa din na lumalala ang nararamdaman kay lalake. typical [feeling] tinedyer bleeeh.


itago natin si babae sa pangalang jeni at si lalake sa pangalang yujin.[wag ka mangialam namiss ko ang ghostfighter oo na]


ang problema, si jeni gusto ilabas ang nararamdaman at ihayag ito kay yujin. oo medyo bold pero ang angas dba? saka may "balls", 


parang 

"e ano kung ayaw nya, e di wag, gusto ko lang mailabas nasa dibdib ko..tas barilin ko, gagu e" 




so ayun na nga pinagusapan namen, tinanong ko ano plano nya pagkatapos nya magtapat. 




ano escape plane nya sa ibat ibang scenario na pwede mangyare?


anu anu nga bang pwede scenario? 


tingin ko tatlo lang yan. 


so imagine this,


unang sagot. 



jeni: "i love you, i have developed feelings for you even before you shit yourself..."
yujin: "......i like you too, thanks for reminding me i shat myself though"



syempre. positive! kaya di na kailangan ng escape plan..kundi...

yes pero hindi bastos na gaya nito

lalong hindi ito, pero not a bad idea right?

yes this was what i had in mind. honest.

its like, theyre perfect they know each others shitbags, and they can both live with it.


yea, of course its either yes or no right? 

2nd answer:

jeni: "i love you, i have developed feelings for you even before you shit yourself..."
yujin: "uhhh..

pero pag di sigurado, and i think this is a good answer na mabibigay ni yujin. 
#3rd and final answer:

jeni: "i love you, i have developed feelings for you even before you shit yourself..."
yujin: "...you know we're friends right? that's why i need to think about this, about us. im a mess blah blah blah...i need to know if im ready for this shit.."




if yujin did say that, then..

indeed well played. as a bro, i think yujin is being a gentleman. he knows that jeni is not ready to to hear an answer such as no, he cant bear to see her cry because of him. 

that is why he wants her to hate him by letting her see a dark side of him and time will allow him to have this opportunity. in this way jeni wont get dumped, 

now jeni will hate yujin, right? or are you into S&M?

OOORRRRRRRRR




..he was really sincere that he wants to be sure[that he's not gay] and he wants to get there by taking little steps, since he is a wreck.


to be perfect..like....

nuff said.

some tips on how to survive a long distance relationship.

• COMMUNICATE. 
• remember all the important dates. celebrating is almost impossible. but with the available technology it is quite easy. send her flowers availed from the internet. have dinner while she grabs that lunch or breakfast [goes with the time difference]. anything na makakapagspend kayo ng time nyo magkasama.
• resolve issues, learn to give. lower your pride. fuck yer pride. if you want this to work, there is no need to keep your head up high. you are a team competing on the same side. not opponents trying to be better than the other.
• whatever you are feeling, anxiety, fear or whatever is bothering you, sabihin mo agad. wala kayong time mag mind games. kung nung magkasama kayo nagpapahula ka pa ng nararamdaman mo dahil feeling mo psychic sya, sorry dahil ngayun hindi na nya mababasa ang palad mo kung ano ang nararamdaman mo.
• sometimes lending an ear is all that matters. makinig ka lang please naman.[walang pinaghuhugutan]
• be honest at all times. in turn kung naging honest na sya sayo try to be understanding

• dispel negativity
• if he/she is spending time with his/her friends let him/her be. it is a way of coping. sino pa ba lalapitan nya kundi mga friends nya db? kung pagseselosan mo mga friends nyang kinukuhanan nya ng lakas dahil magkalayu kayo, masyado mo syang kinukulong sa mundong ikaw lang ang may gusto. in short sinasakal mo sya. youre selfish meeen.
• Wag mo isipin ang tagal ng paghihiwalay nyo, isipin mo ang muling pagsasama nyo. maexcite ka. magsaya ka. dahil sa bawat oras na lumilipas, bawat araw na dumadaan is a step closer to both of you guys being together again. 
• para sa mga lalake, mhirap maging faithful. pero tandaan nyo, ang magsasalba sa relationship nyo ay ang mga nakabookmark na pornsites jan sa computer nyo.

mahirap, sobrang hirap ang long distance relationship. i dont even think its possible. 


pero kung mahal mo, nothing is impossible.

dagdagan ko once i remember them. 

you know you love the person when with a heavy heart you still manage to say you love her ng buong pagsisinta at pagiirog.

end the cynicism pls. #itsmorefuninthephilippines

Been seeing a lot of ads of the recently launched slogan of DOT

in my opinion i think its fresh, even though there were some critics saying that it was, again, copied. booo!

Our secretary Ramon Jimenez was fast and witty to say that,

just followed him, btw.


I concur. That is the truth about our country. It is so blessed.


If my credibility isnt enough, look at a few of my personal pics below.

Coron, Palawan March 2010

She's a beauty right?

It will be awesome for our economy to have tourists all over the place.  innit?


and thankfully one visitor seem to think the same too.

 The problem is, the Filipinos are usually the first ones to fuck up something like this. 


uuuhh..I wanted to write about this in a positive light until i saw a certain site.

http://itsmorefuninthephils.com/

They said:


"Welcome!

This is a satire blog in response to the slightly misleading campaign of the Philippines’ Department of Tourism. While we are not stopping anyone from visiting the Philippines, we want to let everyone know what are the actual things that they may encounter here.

If you do not have a sense of humor, cannot understand sarcasm, or are simply too sensitive for these posts, please leave this site now and do not come back."

I want to believe that the Filipinos are just fun loving. one that can laugh at their own mistakes without offense to anybody or anyone.

is this something to be laughed at?

This blog, this satire blog, laughs at tragedy.  And not all Filipinos are like these.

I dont have any right to judge those guys who put up this site but i can voice out my opinion that although whats being said here is true, there is nothing wrong about being sensitive to these kind of things.

we can make fun of the slogan all we want without losing our empathy to the victims of this tragedy.



like this one:

and surely this one.

http://www.facebook.com/pages/Its-More-Fun-In-The-Philippines-because/304934639548131?sk=wall